Tom, 34, doesn’t hide his anger: his parents are already spending his future inheritance on going on vacation.

Picture this: Your parents are finally taking the time to live, traveling, tasting specialties in Thailand, admiring the Northern Lights in Iceland. And you, for your part, feel uneasy… not because of their lifestyle choices, but because each trip, in your opinion, reduces the amount of your future inheritance. Unfair? Selfish? Perhaps. And yet, that’s exactly how Tom, 34, feels, as he struggles with the fact that his parents are spending their money instead of saving it “for him.”